As a man, you've no doubt heard stories or similar tales of partners, claiming that the size of one's member doesn't matter. While that might be true and what is missing in size can always be rectified in other ways, good, consistent sex is essential for the longevity of any relationship. Sure, there are plenty of happy couples that have been together for years and no longer have consistent sex. That said, there is no way they've made it that far by sleeping in other beds. So, how concerned should one be when their partner says they don't care about the size of your ejaculate?

How Much Is Enough? What Constitutes For Low, High? 

Unfortunately, this is where things become a bit confusing, perhaps even frustrating. Being that people's tastes vary and some are so fickle, it's hard to say what constitutes as enough. For example, some people might be happy with 1 pizza, whereas others might consider less than 2 pizzas inadequate. The same can be said about sperm production. With that in mind, everyone wants a partner that is healthy, protective, and fertile.

Everyone also wants to know they can satisfy their partners. Even more concerning is the fact that sometimes telling your partner they satisfy you isn't enough. That's where a powerful, voluminous load of ejaculate comes in handy. There are no two ways around it, training for bigger loads may become essential to prove your satisfaction of your partner’s abilities. Although an average healthy man should produce anywhere from 2 to 5 CCs of ejaculate, recent studies show that this is considered low. What does this ultimately mean? Even the average active healthy man needs to up their ejaculate game.

How To Go The Extra Mile?

It could be said that there is no more intimate act than oral sex. It's not only a surefire way to get up close and personal, but as explained above, it can be used as a valuable assessment tool. Regardless of the sex of the recipient, oral sex affords the performer the ability to watch, enjoy, and deem every second of pleasure. Think of it like watching your kids unwrap those new bicycles on Christmas morning.

Deep throating, swallowing, and facials don't even begin to scrape the surface of the oral sex content available on today's market. Despite this, there are plenty of people who despise performing the act. They may even view it as demeaning. This simply means that if your partner is willing to go that extra mile, you should be more than willing to put in equal work. Don't just consider upping your volume, but consider eating and staying away from specific foods that alter the taste. In addition, avoid using harsh phrases or words, unless this is something your partner prefers.

Be Aware Of The Issues And How To Fix Them

As important as sex is in any relationship any real MILF loving huge loads can tell you that honesty and open communication are just as so, if not more. You want your partner to believe you when you say something. If you abruptly go from shooting massive loads to minimal production, you need your partner to believe they are not the issue. It's even more important to accurately diagnose the problem.

Although sudden, abrupt changes within the body need to be addressed with immediate concern, it's just as important to determine the true underlying causes. Simply switching your diet might rectify the issue, but that doesn't necessarily it was the root cause. Low sperm production can be linked to all kinds of troubling medical conditions. Dehydration, blockages, prostate problems, lifestyle, aging, stress, retrograde ejaculation, diabetes, STDs, or new onset nerve diseases could all be the leading cause of decreased sperm.