Jerk-off instructions, otherwise known as JOI, have been quite the topical case over the years. Some of the mindset that it is, after all, a great way to get off while others are just too put off by what they tagged 'mean talk.' Well, I say to suck it up! Have you never been in a position where you just want someone to take the reins from time to time? If you haven't? Darling, you do not want to know what you have missed.
What exactly are JOIs?
As the name implies, jerk-off instructions that do as they are told; they dominate a willing partner in words as they are directed on how hard to stroke, when to stroke, where to stroke, and at times when to cum in the dirtiest words possible. And for the more imaginative minds, this is an absolute dream. At the
best JOI cam sites you can dictate how you want the show to go. And some free ones, well, mainly for those aiming to test the waters or are lucky enough to be in the presence of a JOI specialist.
Now for the doubting Thomases probably wondering why they should try something so surreal to them, let me be the one to pop your bubble with three core reasons why you really should try JOI.
1. Emotional Connection.
Of course, you read the caption right, and before you go on raising your brows at the term, you should read further. Usually, it is rather tricky for some people to reach that climax when doing the job themselves. They typically need that extra push to get them right where they need to be, and that is where JOI girls come in. You need not be alone in that intimate, sometimes vulnerable moment. They are there not only to guide but to offer company; sometimes you could even see a tit during a masturbation if you are good. *wink, wink.
2. Porn and JOI
I know for a fact some of you had kicked at the first point, referring to the fact that you could always watch porn to get off, but there isn't ever going to be that real emotional attachment. I mean, these porn videos, not to be discredited, are scripted. Meanwhile, you have JOI instructions where a masturbation queen tells you what you and only you should do. If that isn't a bonus, I don't know what is.
3. Sexuality
I believe I Ieft the best for the last right here. It's no news that most JOI works with command scenarios. In fact, they are mainly orders, and most would lead to orgasm denial for a tad long period. This may seem like torture at the time but believe me, it's rather worth it in the long run as it helps other sexual intimacies. How? Is probably what you're wondering. Well, for those males with poor ejaculation ethics, JOIs like this would train and tame to the point you find that you hold for longer. Then there's the part with opening up. You see, JOIs, especially private and live JOI tend to try out different angles to ensure pleasure which opens up the participants to realizing what S/he likes and wouldn't like. What is pleasurable; what isn't, where; how do you like to be touched and the likes. There's this sexual confidence that just springs from loving your own body.
Oh, don't let me bore you with all the raving; all I can say is you should really give this a try. Maybe just for the fun of it, but don't blame me if you get just a tad addicted.